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What is a Date Me Doc?
Date Me Docs are long-form, earnest dating profiles for serious romantic partners.
The practice of making and sharing Date Me Docs spread within tech, rationalist, and effective altruism communities, which was recently covered in Wired.
Docs are typically shared among friends, blogs, Twitter… and now this directory!
You can view a filterable and sortable version of the directory here.
Directory
| Name | Profile | Gender | Interested In | Age | Location | Style | Kids | Location flexibility | Community | Contact | Edited | Created |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
M | F | 27 | SeattleWAWestern USNorth America | mono | Might want kids | None | see doc | Oct 1, 2023 1:36 PM | Oct 1, 2023 1:36 PM | |||
M | F | 26 | San Francisco Bay AreaNYC | mono | Might want kids | Some | Tech | 5107714914 | Sep 30, 2023 6:47 AM | Sep 30, 2023 6:47 AM | ||
M | MFNB | 32 | San Francisco Bay Area | poly | Wants kids | Some | RationalismEATech | watsonbladd@gmail.com | Sep 30, 2023 4:58 AM | Sep 30, 2023 4:58 AM | ||
M | F | 26 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Some | Tech | kaushikdr@gmail.com | Sep 28, 2023 7:18 PM | Sep 28, 2023 7:18 PM | |||
M | F | 31 | San Francisco Bay AreaBerkeley | poly | Wants kids | Some | EARationalismTech | quinnd@riseup.net | Sep 28, 2023 11:34 AM | Sep 28, 2023 11:34 AM | ||
F | MNB | 37 | San Francisco Bay Area | poly | Does not want kids | Some | EARationalism | See doc | Sep 28, 2023 4:36 PM | Sep 25, 2023 1:56 AM | ||
F | M | 36 | NYC | mono | Does not want kids | None | https://forms.gle/ku4Scg7pdr6QxUs76 | Sep 25, 2023 12:37 AM | Sep 25, 2023 12:37 AM | |||
F | M | NYCNYNorth America | mono | Might want kids | None | see doc :) | Sep 24, 2023 4:36 AM | Sep 24, 2023 4:36 AM | ||||
M | F | Berlin | mono | Might want kids | Some | mark.mossberg@gmail.com | Sep 23, 2023 7:09 AM | Sep 23, 2023 7:09 AM | ||||
M | F | 29 | South of France | Some | RationalismEA | pppauling@outlook.com | Sep 21, 2023 8:39 PM | Sep 21, 2023 8:39 PM | ||||
F | M | 24 | NYC | mono | Wants kids | None | Tech | see doc | Sep 21, 2023 1:40 AM | Sep 21, 2023 1:40 AM | ||
M | FNB | 26 | London | mono | digiovannianthonyj@gmail.com | Sep 20, 2023 10:31 PM | Sep 20, 2023 10:31 PM | |||||
M | F | 43 | NYC | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSePxg2WeEGpIm2aIZ8enBf9xdhmDRsSWpX5eogour3NHykRvg/viewform | Sep 19, 2023 9:45 PM | Sep 19, 2023 9:45 PM | ||
F | M | 32 | Western US | mono | Wants kids | Some | harumageddonhime@gmail.com | Sep 19, 2023 5:18 PM | Sep 19, 2023 5:18 PM | |||
F | M | 32 | Western US | mono | Wants kids | Some | harumageddonhime@gmail.com | Sep 19, 2023 5:04 PM | Sep 19, 2023 5:04 PM | |||
M | F | 25 | Seattle | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | christopher.morris55@gmail.com | Sep 19, 2023 6:45 AM | Sep 19, 2023 6:45 AM | ||
M | F | 30 | Seattle | mono | Wants kids | Some | Rationalism | See doc! | Sep 17, 2023 5:21 PM | Sep 17, 2023 5:21 PM | ||
M | F | 31 | San Francisco Bay Area | poly | Might want kids | Some | Rationalism | b@w-r.me | Sep 17, 2023 6:27 AM | Sep 17, 2023 6:27 AM | ||
F | M | 34 | NYKansas CityLondonAustinTXSacramentoIdahoCentral EuropeSouth of FranceDCCanadaTorontoAmsterdam | poly | Might want kids | Some | Rationalism | aureliebutlerservice@gmail.com | Sep 15, 2023 9:03 PM | Sep 15, 2023 9:03 PM | ||
F | M | 28 | mono | Might want kids | DM on Instagram! 💙 | Sep 15, 2023 5:08 PM | Sep 15, 2023 5:08 PM | |||||
M | F | 28 | Asia | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | Tech | stuehieyr@gmail.com | Sep 15, 2023 2:10 PM | Sep 15, 2023 2:10 PM | ||
M | F | 24 | Flexible | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | Tech | Insta @kevcampbell14 | Sep 14, 2023 6:58 PM | Sep 14, 2023 6:58 PM | ||
M | M | 29 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Might want kids | Some | Rationalism | IG @alant0905 | Sep 14, 2023 2:56 PM | Sep 14, 2023 2:56 PM | ||
M | F | 23 | Flexible | instagram.com/phillyanthrop | Sep 14, 2023 10:26 AM | Sep 14, 2023 10:26 AM | ||||||
F | M | 31 | NYCFlexible | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | @nanseaful | Sep 14, 2023 5:42 AM | Sep 14, 2023 5:42 AM | |||
M | F | 31 | Nebraska | mono | Does not want kids | Flexible | Rationalism | In doc | Sep 14, 2023 6:31 PM | Sep 13, 2023 10:42 PM | ||
F | M | 30 | Chicago | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | TechEA | https://www.instagram.com/scstroh/ | Sep 13, 2023 8:42 PM | Sep 13, 2023 8:42 PM | ||
M | F | 25 | Asia | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | https://twitter.com/eni_naka | Sep 12, 2023 10:03 AM | Sep 12, 2023 10:03 AM | ||
M | F | 25 | NYC | mono | Might want kids | Some | sohitmiglani@gmail.com | Sep 12, 2023 2:19 AM | Sep 12, 2023 2:19 AM | |||
M | F | 22 | NYC | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | mykyta.kotsehub@gmail.com | Sep 10, 2023 6:27 PM | Sep 10, 2023 6:27 PM | ||
M | F | 35 | LondonUK | mono | TechRationalism | alexstaravoitau@fastmail.com | Sep 10, 2023 1:38 PM | Sep 10, 2023 1:38 PM | ||||
M | FNB | 29 | UK | monopoly | Might want kids | None | TechEA | johnrwoolley0@gmail.com | Sep 9, 2023 3:05 PM | Sep 9, 2023 3:05 PM | ||
M | F | 31 | NYCNJ | mono | Might want kids | None | lrnc.lau@gmail.com | Sep 8, 2023 6:17 PM | Sep 8, 2023 6:17 PM | |||
F | M | 44 | Chicago | mono | Flexible | Details in my doc :-) | Sep 6, 2023 12:43 PM | Sep 6, 2023 12:39 PM | ||||
F | M | 23 | San Francisco Bay AreaNYC | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | yunfei.cherhu@gmail.com | Sep 5, 2023 4:15 PM | Sep 5, 2023 1:31 PM | ||
M | F | 25 | DCPhiladelphia | mono | Might want kids | Some | TechEA | jake.gloudemans@gmail.com | Sep 5, 2023 6:06 AM | Sep 5, 2023 6:06 AM | ||
M | F | 32 | NJ | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | https://forms.gle/oxZGCRJj1VCv5J4dA | Sep 5, 2023 2:31 AM | Sep 5, 2023 2:31 AM | |||
M | F | 42 | Seattle | mono | Does not want kids | None | (360) 995 - 3421 | Sep 5, 2023 12:57 AM | Sep 5, 2023 12:57 AM | |||
M | F | 30 | Central Europe | monopoly | Wants kids | Flexible | cooldrylichen@protonmail.com | Sep 3, 2023 9:08 PM | Sep 3, 2023 9:08 PM | |||
F | M | 39 | UK | mono | Has kids | Flexible | EA | vanasare@gmail.com | Sep 3, 2023 2:42 PM | Sep 3, 2023 2:42 PM | ||
M | F | 33 | BrightonLondon | mono | Wants kids | Some | Rationalism | guy.aziz@protonmail.com | Sep 3, 2023 1:57 AM | Sep 3, 2023 1:57 AM | ||
F | M | 32 | NYC | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | askformolly@gmail.com | Sep 1, 2023 9:10 PM | Sep 1, 2023 9:10 PM | |||
F | FM | 32 | London | mono | Does not want kids | Some | EA | lagilbert@gmail.com | Aug 31, 2023 10:57 AM | Aug 31, 2023 10:57 AM | ||
M | F | 32 | San Francisco Bay Area | poly | Does not want kids | Some | Rationalism | ja.kopczynski@gmail.com, Discord @_jisk | Aug 30, 2023 5:45 AM | Aug 30, 2023 5:45 AM | ||
M | F | 37 | NYCSan Francisco Bay Area | Some | jeffchang@gmail.com | Aug 29, 2023 12:16 AM | Aug 29, 2023 12:16 AM | |||||
M | F | 44 | Austin | monopoly | Has kids | Some | See my doc ;) | Aug 28, 2023 8:15 PM | Aug 28, 2023 8:15 PM | |||
M | F | 25 | Brazil | mono | Might want kids | None | sousaluz.joao@gmail.com | Aug 28, 2023 2:23 PM | Aug 28, 2023 2:23 PM | |||
M | F | 38 | Southern US | mono | Does not want kids | Flexible | Tech | See email in doc | Aug 28, 2023 1:12 PM | Aug 27, 2023 9:14 PM | ||
M | F | 24 | PhiladelphiaFlexible | mono | Does not want kids | Flexible | RationalismEA | Listed in the doc :) | Aug 27, 2023 5:19 PM | Aug 27, 2023 5:19 PM | ||
M | F | 28 | WIFlexibleNorth CarolinaNorth AmericaChicagoTX | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | ricojrobbins@gmail.com | Aug 26, 2023 11:03 PM | Aug 26, 2023 11:03 PM | |||
F | MFNB | 28 | Los Angeles | mono | Might want kids | None | @amyleeskates | Aug 26, 2023 8:33 AM | Aug 26, 2023 8:33 AM | |||
M | F | 40 | Boston | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | TechRationalismEA | tonicave@aol.com | Aug 26, 2023 1:26 AM | Aug 26, 2023 1:26 AM | ||
M | F | 56 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | TechRationalismEA | kabuhan@hotmail.com | Aug 25, 2023 8:53 PM | Aug 25, 2023 8:53 PM | ||
F | M | 32 | Western US | mono | Wants kids | Some | harumageddonhime@gmail.com | Aug 25, 2023 7:38 PM | Aug 25, 2023 7:38 PM | |||
M | F | 38 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | 6266795421 | Aug 25, 2023 6:58 PM | Aug 25, 2023 6:58 PM | ||
F | M | 26 | Asia | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | viprapathak96@gmail.com | Aug 25, 2023 12:29 PM | Aug 25, 2023 12:29 PM | |||
M | F | 31 | Central Europe | mono | Wants kids | Some | TechRationalismEA | See Doc! | Aug 24, 2023 10:08 PM | Aug 24, 2023 10:08 PM | ||
M | F | 39 | Austin | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | TechRationalismEA | kevin@myplaceonline.com | Aug 24, 2023 9:00 PM | Aug 24, 2023 9:00 PM | ||
F | M | 39 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Does not want kids | None | Tech | juliaheartsthebay@gmail.com | Aug 23, 2023 9:55 PM | Aug 23, 2023 9:55 PM | ||
M | F | 26 | OxfordOhioIndianapolis | mono | Might want kids | Some | Tech | DM @coryclauz on Twitter or caboose2233 on IG | Aug 23, 2023 7:31 AM | Aug 23, 2023 7:31 AM | ||
M | FMNB | 29 | Los AngelesSouth Bay | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | TechRationalismEA | 3108181972 | Aug 22, 2023 6:46 AM | Aug 22, 2023 6:46 AM | ||
F | M | 29 | NYC | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | 646-701-5901 | Aug 22, 2023 3:16 AM | Aug 22, 2023 3:16 AM | |||
F | M | 42 | SeoulAsiaFlexible | monopoly | Might want kids | Flexible | semin.shim@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 11:26 PM | Aug 21, 2023 11:26 PM | |||
M | F | 32 | Sacramento | monopoly | Some | EA | varunarora.mct+dmd@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 11:06 PM | Aug 21, 2023 11:06 PM | |||
NB | FMNB | 35 | Toronto | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | Tech | mightbeyourmatch@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 7:17 PM | Aug 21, 2023 7:17 PM | ||
F | M | 30 | Berlin | mono | Does not want kids | Flexible | Tech | https://www.okcupid.com/profile/17018999571702682544 | Aug 21, 2023 4:56 PM | Aug 20, 2023 12:10 PM | ||
M | F | 55 | Central Europe | mono | Flexible | ruipedromendes.rpm@gmail.com | Aug 20, 2023 7:53 AM | Aug 20, 2023 7:53 AM | ||||
M | F | 39 | Chicago | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | Insta: @prao2345 | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 20, 2023 4:25 AM | ||
F | M | 30 | Central EuropeBerlin | monopoly | Might want kids | Some | Rationalism | nirbhika.nandakumar@gmail.com | Aug 30, 2023 2:20 PM | Aug 20, 2023 12:18 AM | ||
F | M | 50 | Central Europe | mono | Does not want kids | Some | See form in doc | Aug 21, 2023 4:56 PM | Aug 19, 2023 2:37 PM | |||
M | F | 36 | Brazil | mono | Might want kids | None | Tech | +5562981214448 | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 19, 2023 3:19 AM | ||
M | F | 32 | Oregon | mono | Wants kids | Some | zach.flathers@gmail.com | Sep 14, 2023 6:26 PM | Aug 19, 2023 2:51 AM | |||
F | M | 29 | NYC | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | (646) 701-5901 | Aug 22, 2023 11:12 AM | Aug 19, 2023 12:54 AM | |||
M | F | 62 | Central Europe | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | Rationalism | maiwenn.kafka@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 18, 2023 9:18 PM | ||
F | M | 39 | NYC | mono | Wants kids | Tech | datekadi@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 18, 2023 5:20 PM | |||
M | F | 42 | Ohio | mono | Might want kids | Some | 740-804-2533 | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 17, 2023 11:23 PM | |||
M | F | 26 | PA | mono | Some | elihumunguia7@gmail.com | Aug 17, 2023 8:08 PM | Aug 17, 2023 8:08 PM | ||||
M | F | 53 | San Francisco Bay AreaNYCLondon | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | Rationalism | chef2370@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 5:00 PM | Aug 16, 2023 9:44 PM | ||
M | F | 28 | NYCDCSan Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | RationalismTech | @neallseth | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 16, 2023 4:31 AM | ||
M | F | 33 | NYC | mono | Probably | Flexible | Tech | yash27sharma@gmail.com | Aug 15, 2023 9:31 PM | Aug 15, 2023 9:31 PM | ||
M | F | 45 | Toronto | monopoly | Might want kids | Flexible | Rationalism | chris.keem@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 15, 2023 5:32 PM | ||
M | F | 29 | Flexible | Tech | +91-9838492572 | Aug 15, 2023 5:35 AM | Aug 15, 2023 5:35 AM | |||||
F | M | 38 | London | mono | Wants kids | None | Tech | dasha.borysov@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 14, 2023 10:35 PM | ||
M | NBF | 34 | DCNorth America | polymono | Might want kids | Some | Tech | email in doc or IG @bennettgebken | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 14, 2023 10:28 PM | ||
M | F | 28 | Brazil | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | Tech | See doc | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 14, 2023 5:42 PM | ||
F | M | 28 | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | julianajaimej at gmail dot com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 14, 2023 4:32 PM | |||
M | F | 28 | PA | mono | Probably | Flexible | Tech | Form and contact info in dating doc | Aug 14, 2023 2:04 AM | Aug 14, 2023 2:04 AM | ||
F | M | Berlin | mono | Might want kids | Some | meerabel@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 13, 2023 7:23 PM | ||||
M | F | 31 | mono | Yes | Flexible | RationalismTechEA | 9033711517 | Aug 13, 2023 8:25 AM | Aug 13, 2023 8:25 AM | |||
M | F | 23 | mono | Probably | Flexible | RationalismEA | aaronb50@gmail.com | Aug 13, 2023 1:59 AM | Aug 13, 2023 1:59 AM | |||
F | M | 39 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Might want kids | None | Twitter (@Nicole_Paulk) or email (nikipaulk@gmail.com) | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 12, 2023 5:49 PM | |||
F | M | 29 | Los Angeles | mono | Wants kids | Some | instagram: starcourtsteph | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 12, 2023 11:36 AM | |||
M | F | 25 | London | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | Tech | +918901234930 | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 12, 2023 8:57 AM | ||
M | F | 32 | NYC | mono | Does not want kids | Flexible | TechRationalismEA | Mohsshoaib971@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:56 PM | Aug 11, 2023 5:42 PM | ||
F | M | 35 | Los Angeles | mono | Might want kids | Some | Tech | DM on instagram please 😊 | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 11, 2023 2:38 PM | ||
M | F | 26 | San Francisco Bay Area | Flexible | https://www.instagram.com/pectel_xyz/ | Aug 11, 2023 1:04 PM | Aug 11, 2023 1:04 PM | |||||
F | M | 36 | Los Angeles | mono | Wants kids | Some | https://forms.gle/7tYAV1MvAWWdhJgn7 | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 10, 2023 4:44 AM | |||
F | M | 27 | NYC | Some | nadiragoffe@gmail.com | Aug 9, 2023 9:40 PM | Aug 9, 2023 9:40 PM | |||||
F | FM | 24 | San Francisco Bay Area | monopoly | Wants kids | Some | Tech | s.midianko@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 9, 2023 7:03 PM | ||
M | F | 30 | mono | Probably | Flexible | Tech | vihang.chandra@gmail.com | Aug 8, 2023 2:33 AM | Aug 8, 2023 2:33 AM | |||
F | M | 31 | DC | mono | Wants kids | Some | abygail.mangar@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 7, 2023 10:19 PM | |||
M | F | 29 | ChicagoFlexible | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | Tech | IG: @justasandpaper | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 7, 2023 10:11 PM | ||
M | F | 33 | NYCNJ | mono | Probably | None | Tech | ig: yankeesten1 | Aug 7, 2023 9:22 PM | Aug 7, 2023 9:22 PM | ||
F | M | 31 | NYCTorontoLondon | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | laylaahmad@rogers.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 7, 2023 7:51 PM | |||
M | F | 29 | mono | Probably | Some | Tech | +919035439743 | Aug 7, 2023 2:12 PM | Aug 7, 2023 2:12 PM | |||
M | F | 25 | San Francisco Bay AreaNYC | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | Tech | Officialprathamsharma@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:59 PM | Aug 7, 2023 1:56 PM | ||
M | F | 27 | mono | Probably | Flexible | Tech | DM me on insta | Aug 7, 2023 11:44 AM | Aug 7, 2023 11:44 AM | |||
M | F | 24 | San Francisco Bay AreaOregon | mono | Probably | Flexible | Tech | Instagram: Chaitanya.dawkhar | Sep 14, 2023 6:26 PM | Aug 7, 2023 11:43 AM | ||
M | F | 25 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Probably | Flexible | Rationalism | See doc :) | Aug 7, 2023 11:37 AM | Aug 7, 2023 11:37 AM | ||
M | F | 24 | NYC | mono | Flexible | Tech | Instagram : Mahir14_ | Aug 7, 2023 9:57 AM | Aug 7, 2023 9:57 AM | |||
M | F | 27 | Flexible | roshanraviraj@gmail.com | Aug 7, 2023 9:53 AM | Aug 7, 2023 9:53 AM | ||||||
M | F | 24 | Oregon | mono | Flexible | Tech | Instagram : Mahir14_ | Sep 14, 2023 6:26 PM | Aug 7, 2023 9:45 AM | |||
M | F | 25 | mono | Probably | Some | Tech | krpritish18@gmail.com | Aug 7, 2023 9:16 AM | Aug 7, 2023 9:16 AM | |||
M | F | 21 | Oregon | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | Tech | ausaf7996@gmail.com | Sep 14, 2023 6:26 PM | Aug 7, 2023 8:52 AM | ||
F | 30 | Los Angeles | mono | Some | Look in doc 🙂 | Aug 8, 2023 1:38 PM | Aug 7, 2023 4:12 AM | |||||
F | M | 34 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Some | https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetdiMRUyCtKSXuAZ581Q-DOJkS9GPoVeagAD8iBNN7ldVLcA/viewform?usp=sf_link | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 7, 2023 12:48 AM | |||
M | F | 70 | Colorado | mono | Does not want kids | Some | m888653.denver@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:56 PM | Aug 7, 2023 12:24 AM | |||
NBM | FNB | 33 | NYC | poly | Wants kids | Some | https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScBUdUuOf8I9Ak52jq4RFvPtYyCuoNN1hih6EFhe2ksR-xabw/viewform?usp=send_form | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 7, 2023 12:01 AM | |||
F | M | 26 | DC | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | EA | robertaonoharigho@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 6, 2023 11:58 PM | ||
M | F | 26 | Brazil | mono | Might want kids | Tech | lucasps26@mail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 6, 2023 8:28 PM | |||
F | M | 39 | Amsterdam | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | Tech | Patricia.monthe@icloud.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 6, 2023 4:06 PM | ||
M | 39 | Boston | mono | Might want kids | Some | TechRationalismEA | 617-932-9115 / ilyasitnikov03@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 6, 2023 3:57 AM | |||
M | F | 46 | DC | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | Tech | ryan@speakerblast.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 6, 2023 3:15 AM | ||
M | F | 27 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Might want kids | None | 847-691-1042 | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 6, 2023 3:10 AM | |||
M | F | 40 | mono | Might want kids | Some | Tech | See doc | Sep 14, 2023 6:24 PM | Aug 6, 2023 2:37 AM | |||
M | MNB | 35 | North America | monopoly | Might want kids | Flexible | Tech | see doc | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 6, 2023 2:16 AM | ||
M | M | 32 | Brazil | mono | Might want kids | Some | Tech | https://www.linkedin.com/in/henrique-cabral- | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 6, 2023 1:49 AM | ||
F | M | 26 | Boston | mono | Might want kids | Some | lonearchivistboston@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 6, 2023 12:07 AM | |||
F | MNBF | mono | Probably | Flexible | evaguo8@gmail.com | Aug 5, 2023 1:05 PM | Aug 5, 2023 1:05 PM | |||||
F | M | 59 | Chicago | mono | Does not want kids | Flexible | Rationalism | colleenmahon@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:56 PM | Aug 5, 2023 3:12 AM | ||
F | M | 21 | Philadelphia | mono | Wants kids | Some | EA | Listed in the doc! | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 5, 2023 1:43 AM | ||
M | M | 72 | North America | mono | Does not want kids | Some | Tech | davidglennbriggs52@yahoo.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:56 PM | Aug 4, 2023 7:20 PM | ||
M | F | 35 | CTNew Haven | mono | Wants kids | None | jtcoutts@gmail.com | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 4, 2023 3:38 PM | |||
F | M | ernaemesa@gmail.com | Aug 4, 2023 2:46 PM | Aug 4, 2023 2:46 PM | ||||||||
F | M | 33 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | https://twitter.com/lishiyori/ | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 4, 2023 7:30 AM | ||
FNB | MNBF | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Flexible | yc@aimagical.com | Aug 3, 2023 10:49 PM | Aug 3, 2023 10:49 PM | |||||
F | M | 38 | ChicagoLondonSan Francisco Bay Area | mono | Probably | Flexible | Tech | sakschadha@gmail.com | Aug 4, 2023 2:29 PM | Aug 3, 2023 9:43 PM | ||
M | F | 34 | Los Angeles | mono | Wants kids | Some | Form on dating doc | Aug 21, 2023 4:54 PM | Aug 3, 2023 6:17 PM | |||
F | M | 28 | San Francisco Bay Area | Might want kids | RationalismEATech | Text me at the number in my dating doc! | Aug 21, 2023 4:55 PM | Aug 3, 2023 3:25 PM | ||||
F | M | 29 | San Francisco Bay Area | Might want kids | None | Tech | happyyangsf@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 3, 2023 6:02 AM | |||
F | M | 23 | Philadelphia | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | ritasabri00@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Aug 3, 2023 5:11 AM | |||
F | FMNB | 20 | NYCIndianapolis | mono | Might want kids | Some | please see doc! | Aug 3, 2023 2:56 PM | Aug 3, 2023 5:00 AM | |||
F | M | 38 | DC | mono | Does not want kids | Flexible | Lookitsfitz@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 3, 2023 4:16 AM | |||
M | F | 31 | Boston | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Aug 3, 2023 2:28 AM | ||||
F | M | 30 | Boston | mono | Wants kids | Some | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Aug 3, 2023 1:27 AM | ||||
F | M | 29 | Los Angeles | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | TechEA | @baileyfrancine on twitter | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 3, 2023 1:03 AM | ||
F | FMNB | 36 | FlexibleSan Francisco Bay AreaLondon | polymono | Might want kids | Flexible | RationalismEA | katjasolveig@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 2, 2023 11:58 PM | ||
F | M | 30 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Does not want kids | Some | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 2, 2023 11:25 PM | ||||
F | M | 31 | NYC | mono | Might want kids | None | DM - IG: @marissamegan | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 2, 2023 9:39 PM | |||
F | M | 30 | Vancouver | mono | Wants kids | Some | TechRationalism | https://www.instagram.com/shanni_daily_drawing/ | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Aug 2, 2023 8:32 PM | ||
M | F | 30 | polymono | Wants kids | Flexible | TechEA | johnsonhsieh310@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Aug 2, 2023 8:17 PM | |||
F | M | 35 | NYCBoston | mono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | kjancourtz@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Aug 2, 2023 7:50 PM | ||
F | FNB | 32 | NYC | monopoly | Might want kids | None | Slide into my IG DMs @bananasinthewild | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 2, 2023 3:18 PM | |||
F | F | 22 | TX | mono | Does not want kids | Some | Tech | Discord: b0rderc0llie | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 2, 2023 3:01 PM | ||
M | F | 43 | Amsterdam | mono | Might want kids | Some | EA | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 2, 2023 2:54 PM | |||
F | M | 37 | WI | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | sandrasreitman@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Aug 2, 2023 2:53 PM | |||
M | F | 22 | monopoly | Wants kids | Flexible | Rationalism | natestrum@rocketmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Jul 24, 2023 5:16 AM | |||
F | M | 31 | San Francisco Bay AreaAustin | poly | Wants kids | Flexible | Rationalism | aellasinbox@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Jul 19, 2023 11:35 PM | ||
M | F | 29 | San Francisco Bay Area | monopoly | Does not want kids | Some | RationalismTechEA | root+dating@stvad.org or FB/Twitter | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Jul 19, 2023 9:51 PM | ||
M | F | 35 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | EA | joshuaclingo@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Jul 10, 2023 2:28 AM | ||
M | F | 26 | mono | Does not want kids | Some | TechEA | DM me on Twitter https://twitter.com/broke_chan or leave a comment on my date_me notion page? | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Jul 2, 2023 6:52 AM | |||
M | F | 32 | AustinTX | mono | Might want kids | Some | adamjameskranz@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Jun 26, 2023 1:21 AM | |||
F | M | 30 | Flexible | mono | Might want kids | Some | RationalismEATech | See doc! | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Jun 24, 2023 8:50 PM | ||
M | FNB | 32 | LondonVancouver | polymono | Does not want kids | Flexible | EARationalism | maxcarpendale@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Jun 10, 2023 5:33 PM | ||
F | M | 34 | Oxford | mono | Wants kids | Some | RationalismTechEA | DM @reasonisfun on Twitter | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Jun 8, 2023 11:51 AM | ||
M | F | 30 | FlexibleUKCanadaNorth AmericaTorontoLondonSan Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | EA | thibo.jacques@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Jun 4, 2023 8:54 AM | ||
M | F | 29 | London | mono | Wants kids | Some | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | May 31, 2023 2:36 PM | ||||
M | FNB | 23 | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | EA | tylerthomasjohnston@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | May 14, 2023 10:07 PM | |||
M | F | 38 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Might want kids | Some | jportukalian@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | May 4, 2023 8:17 PM | |||
F | M | 29 | NYNYC | mono | Might want kids | Some | Tech | nicolek13@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Apr 25, 2023 1:42 PM | ||
M | F | 23 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Some | EATechRationalism | See doc! | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Apr 25, 2023 3:07 AM | ||
M | F | 34 | Berlin | mono | Wants kids | Some | RationalismTech | date.mark.1co4i@simplelogin.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Apr 19, 2023 10:06 AM | ||
M | F | 28 | DC | monopoly | Some | EARationalismTech | calebwithers@gmail.com | Apr 5, 2023 3:29 AM | Apr 5, 2023 3:29 AM | |||
M | F | 33 | NYC | Wants kids | Some | https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfz0F9mEMVEr-PATsw3FPA0XpB6qAxcM85f4r_tMV7n-Txs3A/viewform | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Mar 30, 2023 4:37 PM | ||||
M | F | 29 | San Francisco Bay Area | monopoly | Might want kids | Some | RationalismEA | elityre@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Mar 22, 2023 4:36 AM | ||
M | F | 30 | Berlin | mono | Wants kids | Some | ema@mailbox.org | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Mar 16, 2023 6:06 PM | |||
M | F | 35 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Some | RationalismTechEA | https://twitter.com/armandcognetta | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Mar 12, 2023 2:02 AM | ||
M | F | 30 | Berlin | mono | Might want kids | None | EA | aronmill1992@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Feb 27, 2023 4:52 PM | ||
M | F | 42 | Denver | poly | Might want kids | Flexible | Rationalism | embrodski@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Feb 22, 2023 7:22 PM | ||
M | F | 30 | San Francisco Bay Area | monopoly | Might want kids | None | Tech | See dating doc | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Feb 20, 2023 5:15 AM | ||
F | M | 35 | North AmericaCanadaFlexibleBerlinUK | mono | Does not want kids | Flexible | RationalismEA | ashesphoenix235@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Feb 19, 2023 12:28 PM | ||
F | MF | 25 | GeorgiaDC | mono | Wants kids | Some | Rationalism | leonard#4208 on discord | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Feb 15, 2023 4:27 AM | ||
M | F | 36 | DC | Might want kids | Some | IG: billbeaver_ | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Feb 14, 2023 10:25 PM | ||||
M | F | 33 | polymono | Might want kids | Flexible | Email me, info is in the document | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Feb 13, 2023 3:34 AM | ||||
F | M | 24 | London | polymono | Flexible | twitter.com/rachelclif | Jan 23, 2023 5:07 PM | Jan 23, 2023 5:07 PM | ||||
F | M | 26 | DCNorth AmericaColoradoDenverFlexible | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | EA | gavriel.kleinwaks@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Jan 18, 2023 11:48 PM | ||
F | M | 35 | San Francisco Bay Area | Does not want kids | None | https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh7EMSlEL_1rDwdaEUPd1--KUNNTICAfMi7ckvn9PEkxwHGA/viewform | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Dec 12, 2022 10:36 PM | ||||
M | F | 24 | Boston | mono | Does not want kids | Some | EA | scasper@mit.edu | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Dec 12, 2022 2:30 PM | ||
M | F | 28 | London | mono | Does not want kids | Some | RationalismEATech | Instagram: @luca__parodi (https://www.instagram.com/luca__parodi/); mail: lukparodi@gmail.com; Telegram: @LucaParodi1 | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Nov 16, 2022 7:55 PM | ||
M | F | 28 | Berlin | mono | Might want kids | Some | EA | https://forum.effectivealtruism.org/users/brennan-w | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Nov 7, 2022 8:39 PM | ||
NBM | FNB | 29 | NYCNYSan Francisco Bay AreaAustinNorth America | monopoly | Wants kids | Flexible | EARationalismTech | pitter.patter.precisely@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Nov 7, 2022 5:45 PM | ||
F | MF | 38 | Georgia | poly | Wants kids | Flexible | fluffypeanuts@gmail.com, Facebook Messenger: Carissa Lorraine Cassiel | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Oct 25, 2022 7:51 PM | |||
M | F | 29 | Flexible | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | EARationalism | tyronebarugh+dating@gmail.com or @barughtyrone on twitter | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Oct 19, 2022 5:27 PM | ||
NB | M | 38 | Ladysmith BC | mono | Does not want kids | None | Tech | Academia_nut@shaw.ca | Oct 14, 2022 6:43 PM | Oct 13, 2022 2:34 AM | ||
M | F | 37 | Berlin | poly | Might want kids | None | EA | Email or FB | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Oct 12, 2022 12:25 PM | ||
M | F | 39 | Boston MA | polymono | Wants kids | Some | Tech | ben@benorenstein.com | Aug 30, 2023 1:28 PM | Oct 12, 2022 11:50 AM | ||
M | F | 29 | London | monopoly | Wants kids | Flexible | EARationalism | @nathanpmyoung | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Oct 9, 2022 4:36 PM | ||
M | F | 32 | Lubbock Texas temporarily | polymono | Might want kids | Flexible | EA | kevinwheeler90@gmail.com facebook.com/kevin.wheeler | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Oct 7, 2022 8:31 PM | ||
M | FNB | 29 | Philadelphia PA | poly | Wants kids | Some | EATechRationalism | quinnd@riseup.net | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Oct 5, 2022 5:39 PM | ||
M | F | 42 | San Francisco Bay AreaSouth Bay | mono | Wants kids | Some | TechRationalism | roman@WebServiceCenter.net | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Oct 3, 2022 9:54 PM | ||
M | F | 27 | Brighton | mono | Wants kids | Some | Sep 14, 2023 6:28 PM | Oct 2, 2022 8:49 PM | ||||
F | M | 43 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Might want kids | Flexible | Tech | Jessicakaylissner@gmail.com | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Oct 2, 2022 6:26 AM | ||
M | FNB | 35 | Albany NY | mono | Does not want kids | Flexible | EA | Oct 1, 2022 8:21 PM | Oct 1, 2022 8:21 PM | |||
F | FMNB | 24 | Oregon | monopoly | Might want kids | Flexible | EARationalism | Facebook | Sep 14, 2023 6:26 PM | Oct 1, 2022 8:00 PM | ||
M | FMNB | 27 | San Francisco Bay Area | EA | Oct 16, 2022 2:48 PM | Oct 1, 2022 4:06 PM | ||||||
M | F | 33 | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | Facebook/Insta | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Oct 1, 2022 2:26 AM | ||||
M | FNB | 43 | San Francisco Bay AreaBerlinAshevilleVancouver Island | monopoly | Wants kids | Flexible | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 30, 2022 9:46 PM | ||||
M | F | 38 | Chicago | poly | Might want kids | Some | EA | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 30, 2022 7:09 PM | |||
M | FMNB | 30 | London | poly | Might want kids | None | RationalismEA | Oct 16, 2022 2:49 PM | Sep 30, 2022 2:45 PM | |||
F | M | 34 | London Brighton | mono | Wants kids | Some | EA | facebook | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 30, 2022 2:40 PM | ||
M | F | DCSan Francisco Bay AreaNYC | monopoly | Flexible | Contact via FB | Feb 15, 2023 6:26 PM | Sep 30, 2022 12:21 PM | |||||
M | F | 42 | Toronto Canada | monopoly | Might want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 29, 2022 9:55 PM | |||||
M | F | San Francisco Bay Area | poly | Might want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 29, 2022 7:53 PM | ||||||
M | NYC | Sep 29, 2022 1:29 AM | Sep 29, 2022 1:26 AM | |||||||||
M | F | 28 | Brooklyn NYC | mono | Wants kids | Some | RationalismEATech | @stevekrouse on Twitter (dm) | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||
NB | FM | 29 | Cambridge MA | poly | Wants kids | Flexible | EA | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||
M | F | 27 | San Francisco Bay Area | Does not want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | F | MadisonWISan Francisco Bay Area | monopoly | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | F | 29 | PAPhiladelphia | poly | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
F | M | 42 | Ladysmith BC | mono | Does not want kids | Sep 14, 2023 6:24 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
M | F | 34 | Western US | mono | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
NB | F | 39 | Does not want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||||
M | F | 39 | Collingswood NJ | poly | Sep 29, 2022 2:01 AM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | F | 29 | BerkeleySan Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
M | F | BerkeleySan Francisco Bay Area | Wants kids | TechRationalismEA | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | 27 | Sep 29, 2022 12:19 AM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||||||
M | 22 | NYC | Sep 29, 2022 12:20 AM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||||
F | M | 27 | Austin TX | Does not want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | F | 33 | Ewing NJ | mono | Wants kids | Flexible | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||
M | F | 34 | SomervilleMA | monopoly | Oct 16, 2022 2:47 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | Los Angeles | monopoly | Oct 16, 2022 2:47 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||||
MNB | M | 25 | Massachusetts | monopoly | Does not want kids | Flexible | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||
M | F | 34 | Denver Colorado | mono | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
M | F | 29 | Ribeirão Bonito Brazil | monopoly | Might want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
F | 32 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | F | 32 | South of France | mono | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
M | F | 35 | Asheville North Carolina | poly | Might want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
M | Oct 1, 2022 2:01 AM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||||||
M | FMNB | 30 | London | poly | Wants kids | EARationalism | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||
M | F | 35 | polymono | Wants kids | Flexible | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
M | F | 31 | Hackney London | Might want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | F | 28 | San Francisco Bay Area | monopoly | Does not want kids | EA | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||
M | F | Might want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||||
M | F | 30 | NYC | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | F | 20 | London | Oct 16, 2022 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||||
M | Sep 29, 2022 1:15 AM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||||||
M | Vancouver Island Vancouver Seattle | monopoly | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||||
M | F | San Francisco Bay AreaNYC | monopoly | EARationalism | Oct 16, 2022 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||||
M | FM | 31 | North America | poly | Wants kids | Flexible | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | ||||
F | M | 32 | San Francisco Bay Area | mono | Wants kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:49 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
M | F | 40 | Boston | poly | Does not want kids | Aug 3, 2023 2:48 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM | |||||
M | F | 34 | Ohio | mono | 0 | Flexible | Sep 14, 2023 6:28 PM | Sep 28, 2022 11:40 PM |
Submit Your Date Me Profile
Please only add your own profile. Not all Date Me Docs are meant to be 100% public.
FAQ
How do I edit my submission?
Resubmit the form if you want anything edited & shoot me a message so I know to delete the old row. Or you can just let me know the update via contact info below.
Can I suggest a location?
Contact me (info below) if you want to suggest a location or edit to one of the location fields. I’m trying to keep it relatively standardized, so it’s easier to filter.
Why is the directory >70% male?
Great question! I think there are a couple reasons:
- Date Me Docs came about as a practice in tech, rationalism, and EA communities, which are disproportionally male.
- Men feel safer exposing themselves romantically publicly.
- Women can get too much attention when they publicize that they are looking to date.
Date Me Docs, and the culture surrounding them are so new, but it seems like could be a reasonable state of affairs for men to be the ones to create and publicly post Date Me Docs, and for women to read them and contact the men they are interested in privately, sometimes with a simple message, and sometimes with a private version of a Date Me Doc. There have been women who initially made their Date Me Doc public, but then changed it to private when they got too much inbound attention.
I’d encourage women who feel safe to create and publicly share a doc to do so, and know that there is always the option to make it private later. On the other hand, this Bumble-like pattern where women remain private and message men could also be a healthy pattern. We shall see!
Can I bring Date Me Docs to my community?
Yes!!! While Date Me Docs started in Tech/rationalism/EA, I think it would work well in a lot of nerdy or intellectual communities. Bring your friends to the party! Share it on social media!
Where can I learn more?
Press
- ‘Date Me’ Google Docs and the Hyper-Optimized Quest for Love (Wired)
- Four ways to find love - without the apps (The Guardian)
- L’amour est dans le drive (Society, original French, google-translated to English)
Blogs
- Hacker Dating Strategies by Steve Krouse
- Return of the Yenta by Sahar Massachi
Doc Aggregetors
- Effective Dating Facebook
- TPOT For Two - an ingroup "date me" directory with 81 entries
- Scott Alexander’s Astral Ten Classifieds
Contact
steveykrouse at gmail dot com or Twitter DM
Suggestions, feedback, or any and all stories are extremely welcome. Please make my day! ☀️